Cheating?

Not long ago, I found out that my friend's boyfriend is cheating on her. I didn't quite get him. If he didn't like her attitude, he shouldn't/wouldn't/COULDN'T have gotten with her at the first place. If it was because of her tantrums, which is possibly something you would find in every girl you meet (depending on the frequency though) so if you can't stand them, I suppose you can choose to screw a man instead. Other than that, I can't find a better reason as she's been doing a pretty decent job as THE great girlfriend. I meant, how many girls out there can you find who is willing to sacrifice all her attention, energy, time and money at all times for ONE barely attractive guy? I judged that from all the possible criterias: looks, intelligence, style, charm, attitude, etc. etc. But no. I tried really hard looking for something addictive about him and I found nil.

As for her, I don't usually see girls who are willing to wake up at 7 am every morning just to pick the boyfriend to... somewhere, buys breakfast for him AND his entire family, pays for all their dating expenses at 90% of the times, even pumps his petrol for him and furthermore, pays for his car repair. Oh please don't give me bullshyt like "hey I did that too!". Well maybe once, but for her, that's already like her life. I really think that she's the nicest and most generous girl I've ever seen.

But anyhow, he still cheated on her. Period.

I suppose the entire my-boyfriend/girlfriend-cheated-on-me phenomena is rather common these days. It is as though it is odd to see someone who is willing to stay loyal to his/her partner, despite the number of fishes there are in the sea. Lucky me, I can't really remember any sort of those happening to me. I'm doubtful that my exs have cheated on me behind my back, unless they were pretty excellent liars. *roll eyes* Or I suppose the relationships just didn't last long enough for them to get REALLLLLLLLLLLY bored of me until they have to fool around for better companions.

HAHAHA! =D

However, it seems that it's happening really often to people around me. My sister's previous 8 years relationship with her FORMER bastard/jerk/asshole/fucktard fiance, who cheated on her with some slut, ended tragically. So did a few of my other friends, whose boyfriends cheated on them, and mostly with people whom are friends with the girl herself. But oh, the worse one which I've heard of so far, the girl was pregnant with the guy's baby, but he left her for her friend instead. She ended up going for an abortion herself, and might not be able to get pregnant ever again. Typical Chinese drama eh?

Well, I don't want you people to tell me that I'm sexist again. The number of male victims are almost equal. I've seen countless of guys who were heartbroken because their (ex)girlfriend went out with some other guy. Even my current went through that himself.

Then again, it depends on your definition of 'cheating'. Some boyfriends are just so blardy (over)protective that they accuse you of cheating when all you did was called your guy best friend to complain about not having anything to wear for the party on the coming Friday. (Fine, maybe that's just what 'I' do with my guy best friend. -_-)

So if you even consider some casual notes-exchanging meet-ups with a friend of the opposite sex a DATE, just go bang your own head with the hardest object you can find around.

Most of the time, I pity those girls for being stuck with jerks like that. But some other times I feel that these girls asked for the pain and agony themselves. There's always a choice, which is to leave the arse for a better man.

"But I can't find another guy!"

BULLSHYT! Guys are EVERYWHERE. Show me one public area where you can't find a guy.

"But I can't find another Mr. Right to replace him."

How the hell can he be Mr. Right if he actually cheats on you?!

"But I love him too much!"

*cock stare*

Give me a break. One negative thing about girls, one too many worries. More than half the time, they're afraid of problems which almost do not exist. Most people who are to used to being attached fear breakups because they feel that they might not be able to cope without someone. Dependency. Many others wouldn't let go of the current regardless of how horrible the partner is until he/she is able to find a better companion. Fear of loneliness.

I watched Oprah today. According to the survey, 78% of women don't think that they are good enough for anyone, even themselves. Most girls who got cheated on before did not choose to leave the guy because of they don't think that they are, or ever will be good enough for anyone else and therefore feels safe and grateful remaining attached to their current. Some claimed that they love the guy so blardy much that the pain is worth it. Blah.

Sometimes I think 'love' is overrated. Whoever who said 'love hurts' is a fucktard. It is all those stupid decisions and unreasonable things you do which makes it hurts so badly. Some people think that the more it hurts, the deeper in love you are. Bullshyt. Love does not hurt unless you choose to make it painful, or at least, it is not supposed to hurt.

I don't like feeling worthless. I (probably) won't allow myself to go through such stupid pain, despite how much I love him. Besides, nothing hurts more than sitting right beside the guy you love, knowing that his heart doesn't even belong to you. I would rather leave. Or do something 10000000 times more evil.

SO KEITH AARON MACFARLAINE!!!
Try cheating on me once and I'll chop you into tiny tiny pieces and flush you down the toilet!

Hunny you know I love you right? *winks* =p